The rise of the women’s empowerment movement has undeniably brought about positive changes, but it’s crucial to maintain a balance. One significant issue is the pervasive need to constantly compete with or prove oneself to the opposite gender—a practice that contradicts the essence of true equality.
True equality emerges when individuals feel inherently equal, without the necessity to demonstrate parity. Embracing our shared humanity while acknowledging biological differences allows us to understand that neither gender is superior; both have unique strengths and limitations. Men and women should engage in tasks that resonate with their interests, values, and capabilities instead of taking up roles to prove their worth to the opposite gender. This need to prove oneself can actually be disempowering, reflecting a lack of control over one’s life.
This issue seems more pronounced for women than for men. Men generally don’t feel compelled to prove themselves in areas where women excel, such as childbearing or certain creative pursuits. Women, however, often find themselves trying to match traditionally male-dominated roles, sometimes neglecting the value of what they have always excelled at.
This isn’t to suggest that women shouldn’t embrace traditionally male-dominated roles; they absolutely should. Similarly, men can venture into roles traditionally associated with women. The evolving mindset and technological advancements enable more individuals to undertake tasks traditionally associated with a specific gender. However, the motivation behind such choices should stem from personal passion, genuine interest, financial need, or skill, rather than from a feeling of inadequacy in their traditionally associated roles.
If a woman feels ashamed of being a homemaker, even if she has chosen this role and finds true meaning in prioritizing her family, it highlights an issue. Conversely, if a woman feels guilt for pursuing a career outside the home despite sincerely believing she can contribute more effectively in that role, it’s a significant issue. However, the focus here is on the former scenario, which often gets less attention in discussions on gender equality.
True equality is rooted in the sense of already being equal, eliminating the need for constant competition. People typically compete with those they aspire to be like; when one feels equal, competition becomes unnecessary.
In essence, genuine equality arises when individuals recognize and celebrate their inherent worth, appreciating the unique qualities each gender brings to the table. It’s about fostering an environment where individuals can pursue their true callings without the burden of proving themselves or conforming to societal expectations.
